S1E7: Date Night in the ER | Child Birth Experiences | Would You Rather?

This week, Pam and Deb share their wild "date night in the ER" after a surprise appendicitis story from last week, recap the hilarious story behind  the birth of their daughter. We cap it all off with a laugh-out-loud "Would You Rather" game, debating everything from toes-for-fingers to sleeping with a wasp nest! It’s a perfect blend of heartfelt moments and absurd fun. 

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This one. Miss. I'm calm, cool it. Collected in a crisis, decides. Oh, my God. Where's this? Where's the bag? I need the tennis balls for your back. Where are the things? Where's your purse? Where's my thing? So she said, I grab it all. All the stuff we knew we needed and everything. Like, ran through the whole house to find everything we might possibly need. Ran herself into a car, got in. The car, put all the stuff in the car, started the car, backed out. Of the driveway without me. Forgot my wife, my pregnant wife, ready to deliver a baby. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I did come back for you. He did, which is good, but that's an exception story. I think that's the. I still remember my head. Welcome to she said, she said podcast. I am Pam Pryor, author, speaker, CFO, and I balance the books. And I'm Deb Reinhardt. I'm a Chopra, certified meditation teacher and master life coach. And I balance. Bam. Each day, each day, each week here, we dive into the topics. We dive daily. We dive daily. We do dive daily. But on she said, she said, we dive weekly. We dive weekly into the topics that make up business partners, corporate workers in a marriage of 33 years, essentially. So we made you all a promise last episode, and we said, no matter what, we're gonna do date night every week. And we kept our promise. And so why don't we tell them about date night? Deb, what did we do on date night? What night was it? Saturday. Saturday. This past. Speak up, Deb. They came Saturday. This past Saturday was our date night. What did we do? It's awesome. Well, our date night. So to just get ready for the date night, I had a long, luxurious bath. There you go. Fabulous. And I got out of my long, luxurious bath, and I said to Pamela, we need to call the ambulance. Because you were doubled over in pain. Because I was in extraordinary pain. Now, initially, we thought that it was kidney stones, but indeed we didn't. We weren't sure. There were a lot of other people who thought maybe kidney stones. That is true. So where we live, it's really pretty good. The minute you call 911, the police get the emts. The police. Amazing. Amazing. Shout out to lower Makefield. Lower Makefield emts and Lower Makefield police. They are the bomb. That is true. That's in Bucks County, Pennsylvania. Thank you, guys. But within. I know, three minutes, policeman was here. Came right on in just to make sure everything was okay. And then within another five minutes, the emts were here. And then they escorted us to our date? Yes. Then we went to date night at St. Mary Hospital in Langhorne for the evening. Now, the interesting thing about this is pain tolerance. And when you hear the end of this story, you're gonna understand why I'm mentioning this. But Deb has stomachaches hurt. And every now and then, she'll say, like, oh, it's never hurt this much in my whole life. And, like, I can tell the way she's saying it, it's kind of like, this is a really sucky stomachache. But this time, there was something really different in your voice. Cause I called the ambulance. Well, no, you said, I have to go to the hospital. I said, should I call an ambulance? And you said, yeah. I'm like, okay. And it was obviously pain. There was no drama in this whatsoever. And so the guys get here, the emts get here. I'm deciding and said to the cop, I should take some footage of this. This is pretty good stuff for she said. She said, at which point, Deb was together enough to lift up her head and said, if you do, I will kill you. I will kill you. Which didn't stop me. Remind me. But the beautiful part about. So the police officer who was here said, please, please don't. We want to be here for one reason and one reason only. I don't want to have to come back. That was pretty funny. He was great. But he didn't stop me from taking just a little bit of footage, maybe just a couple pictures that I have to give you for this episode. So off we go to the hospital. So they put Deb in the ambulance, and then I kind of follow the ambulance. They're not going with blazing things on. They're just driving normally. And we get there, and they let me back to see you, and I'm like, did they give you anything for the pain? And Deb says, no. They offered, but I said no because. I wanted to know. Like, I wanted to feel the pain. Like, I wanted, like, if it was something other than. Hold on. If it was something other than, like, a kidney stone, like, you know, perhaps an appendix, I would want to know, like, what's my pain level? What's my true pain level? If I take pain meds, I may not know if there's something really not good going on in there. So I just said, no, I'm. Right now I'm just going to suck it up. So she did remind you, this high pain tolerance woman having the worst pain in her life, worse than childbirth, says, I'll just suck it up. So we get in the hospital. And I'm in there with her, and literally, the pain is so bad, she is moaning. Moaning like the moaning people in the hospital er room. She is moaning. And I said, boy, maybe we should have taken that pain medicine. And she says to me, well, why can't the nurse just give me some. Now, if the EMT was offering it to me, why can't they just give it to me here? So I say, in the ambulance, the EMT is the boss. They can do whatever the hell they want. He said, too. In the hospital. In the hospital, they have to wait. The doctors have to wait for all. The doctors and everybody else to say, they can give you something. But you did talk me into going out and asking a nurse for pain meds, even though I knew the minute I walked out, the nurse was gonna say, I can't do anything till the doctor orders it. But this nurse apparently has some serious control in that hospital. Like, if you're looking for the hidden hierarchy, this woman was at the top. Because the next thing I know, the doctor's in your room. And I just looked at her, like, as she came in behind him, and she just went, they were awesome. Okay. And they put Dilaudid in you right away, and you got just stupid. Stupid. Yeah. CAT scan. And we found out. And just make a long story short, it was appendicitis. That's all we really knew at that point. Yep. Right. And they had you on Dilaudid, which is pretty darn powerful. Good painkiller. Yeah. So I come home when, bless their heart, came up the next day to stay with the dog. So I could kind of stay with you for multiple dates in a row. We've kind of. We've had three dates in a row now. It counts for three weeks. And the really funny thing is, at home, you know, about the recliner chair. We talk about so much in the hospital. There's a recliner chair next to the bed. So I just pulled up with my computer. She did. Rolled in and created a nest. And I said, this is no different than being in hope for me. But overnight, Saturday night or into the morning, I guess early, we didn't even talk till nine or ten. You were like, the pain is just getting worse and worse and worse. The dilaudid wasn't touching it. So instead of waiting, they wheeled you in for emergency services. They actually opened up another. A lot of. To get you in. Yeah. So, needless to say, it had burst. Yeah, it had burst. Yeah. And that becomes emergent and as much fun as we're making of all this. Don't ignore pain in your body. Don't ignore pain in your body. If you had ignored this, we'd have had a problem. We'd had a big problem, a serious problem. So that's kind of my, my big lesson. And then miraculously, you've had like zero post surgical pain, which is weird. Very little. I had, I took pain meds. I took pain meds for the first 24 hours. So you're, to me, the biggest thing I think we're seeing, we got back home three days later, is just tired because your body's been through a lot of trauma. Yeah. Yeah. And then. So I'm just a little less manic around that. So tell me how that's served. How that, how's that working for you? So needless to say, I'm keeping the house now, which is kind of funny. I saw that and there's a camera on you. I know. That's why I'm telling the camera. It's quite a good job. Although I will say I made the beds two days, clean the cat litter two days. I will say that the dishwasher still in the. Emptied the dishwasher. And there's my point. I am saying, sit down, let me do my batch thing because I'll take care of the house. Right. And you. You can. I can. Now, the good thing about the last few days is you have been resting in between a lot. So that's a little better. Yes. But I've taken naps. Yeah, I've taken naps. That's big for me, which is big. And then today was kind of your first. I read an entire novel. I read an entire novel I'm on without falling asleep. I'm on the second. I'm on the second installment. But this morning you had to get a shower, get rolling pretty early in the day, and I'm like, that shower is going to take it out of you. We were going to record it our normal time, but we're like, yeah, let's give it a little extra time so you're not up and rushing. But even not rushing, that was pretty exhausting. Yeah, it felt amazing. It feel good to have a shower in your own shower? Shower in my shower. Like just. Yes. All of my soaps, all of my things. Yes. And what's fabulous, what I'd say about this is we were pretty calm in the emergency, both of us. Yeah. And that's par for the course, I. Think when things are serious, when there is a serious emergency, we both kind of we both get into zone. Yeah. Yeah. And I think all the time. I think that happened pretty well. And it's interesting, like, do you physically feel some sort of reaction when there's an emergency to handle and then you suppress it or how does that all process? No, it's like. So it's like there's like a switch that just flips. Yep. And I'm just in a different place. Yeah. I start thinking about the organizer. I have to get her first. I have to get her id. I have to. Yeah, you first call 911. And then we got to do this, this, this, and this. What were you about to say? No, I was just imagining another event. Which one? That was perhaps not quite as. I know. Which one? Not quite as calm and relaxing. Ok. All right. 26 years ago, when Lindsey was born, I may not have been. You may not have been able to flip that switch so nice and neatly, have you? No. So, yeah, 26 years ago. That's what you should tell from your perspective. I can. I can. So, you know, there's just nothing about being pregnant in the summertime. That's good. We just. Our daughter was born 26 years ago. Our daughter was born 26 years ago in July. July. But my water broke at

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00 a.m. and I was sleeping by myself because I was too uncomfortable to sleep any other way. And I called Pam and I said, pam, my water broke. We need to get to the hospital now. I am in an extreme state of calm. Calm zone. Extreme state of calm. I need to get clothes on. Everything is, like, pouring out of me. I'm like, no worries. I'm just gonna get together this one. Miss I'm calm, cool and collected in a crisis. Decides, oh, my God, where's this? Where's the bag? I need the tennis balls for your back. Where are the things? Where's your purse? Where's my thing? So she's. I grab it all. All the stuff we knew we needed and everything, like, ran through the whole house to find everything we might possibly need. Ran herself into a cardinal, got in. The car, put all the stuff in the car, started the car, backed out. Of the driveway without me. Forgot my wife, my pregnant wife, ready to deliver a baby. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But I did come back for you. He did, which was good, but that's an exception story. I think that's the. I still remember my head, that, honest. To God, it was hysterical. Hysterical, hysterical. And I did get you. And you were laughing. We were laughing like, you were just. Sitting there, like, she'll figure it out. I gotta say this. My daughter. My daughter is a happy person. And perhaps because of that, perhaps part of her joy is the fact that through entire birth experience, I don't think we laugh. We laugh on one end to that. Well, the other thing is, you decided to give birth on the night of. On the day. The morning. I decided to give birth. I don't think I decided. She had all of the control there. Right there. Well, you both decided to give birth on the day of the finals of the World Cup. World Cup. 1990 World cup. Yeah. There you are. And I forget who was. I think Germany was. Germany was playing. Absolutely. Germany was playing. Maybe it wasn't the finals. Maybe it was the semi. Anyway, Germany was playing, and we decided to do a c section at some point. We did not decide to do a C section. Let's be very clear. I labored for 17 hours. I labored for 17 hours. It was a long, long labor while I sat there dealing with pain. And by the way, we tried the epidural. That was bad. Neither of them took. Well, it. Like, dead in one tiny spot, one half. It was crazy. Anyway, I'm sitting there going through some of the worst pain that I imagine. That, you know, until the appendicitis. Until what? This. But meanwhile, my wife. Where is Sheddeh? Where's she in? I was right in and saw this. She's watching the soccer match. Yeah, it was a good game. She's watching football. Well, I couldn't do anything except hold your hand, which I was doing and talking to you. Yeah. Just every time it was close to the goal, I'd be like, well, hang on just a sec. But when they decided to do the c section. Yes, we had a little time then, because it wasn't emergent at that point. And I'm like, well, let's just wait. Till the end of the game. She almost came across the table. Well, the nurses got back at me because they take her in for the c section, and the nurses. I'm a big girl. The nurses bring in the best. I swear it was small. They say it was medium set of scrubs for me to put on. These things came halfway up my butt, period. Like, they did not pull all the way on. This was not a pretty picture. And I had the video camera, and I needed to be, like, present for Deb in the c section room. So I handed the camera to a. Technician, one of our anesthesiologists. Because we had the two failed epidurals, they brought in another anesthesiologist who actually did the spinal block, and they got me from the thing into the OR, which, by the way, you know, you still are thinking that you're going to be able to be helpful right after spinal block, after you just don't. I had never had something like that. So I'm like, oh, here, I'll help. Slide over. And like, I had no control. I just died into fits of laughing and there. What are you laughing about? I'm like, I am a big, fat pregnant person and I cannot help you move me over to that thing. So they were hysterical. So, yes, we had in the oR, it was the neonatal doctor, the neonatal nurse, our doctor, his nurse. We had like a med student and a resident who had been following us all day long. So we had them, we had an intern, we had the two anesthesiologists that tried, and a third one who came in and was manning the camera. Yeah. And I said to him, I said, if you take a picture of my ass, you will die. You will, period, die. Because I. They just. And everybody was laughing at that point. I'm like, who is the one who decided to bring these in? And I knew it was the one nurse who was like, you do not tell your wife. Wait until the World cup is over. We will make you pay for that. Which, so good, to be fair, was my due. It was totally. I earned that. Totally fair. I earned that. But anyway, we are very glad that you're back on that couch. We, the ubiquitous we. We're very grateful for friends and family who supported Gwen in particular. Just moved up here and parked for three days. Oh, heart, heart. Back after you. And friends who made us soup. Like, we had friends who brought food and soup and Lindsay. And flowers. Flowers came over from our nephew. It was just lovely. Sometimes you do just need to ask for help. And this time we didn't even need to, actually, which was really pretty awesome. So it's, I think maybe a different date night. Let's try it next time. I think maybe we'll take this weekend off just to kind of. That's probably good. A little pause, but then back to it. And we will keep our word. I promise. We will keep our word. Love it. Well, glad to have you back. I'm glad it's out. And I am glad it happened to, like. I'm glad that you recognized the pain and said, this is different. Yeah. Because that's just something, folks, you don't want to mess with. Trust your body to tell you when. All right, so now our wonderful producers have brought us a game to play. Yeah. This looks cool. Called would you rather, but the first thing I noticed about the game, would you rather. I said that kind of fast, is, see these colors? They are the exact, well, not exact same colors as our designer would tell us that they're not the exact same colors, but they're close to the same colors as our logo. They are in the color family. In the color. So you are the rather color and I am the would you color. Yes. And that just, I thought was an interesting point to make. But I've never actually played this game before. But I've heard of it, and apparently we read a would you rather we read the back of one card or we read the back of the other card? Right. And then we have to decide which of those it is. Right. So you want to read first? I'll read first. Okay, I'm ready. Okay. So, Pam, would you rather have all soft and fluffy textures feel like sandpaper when you touch them or have to sleep upside down hanging from a tree branch, whatever the weather? I think I have to go with the soft and fluffy textures feeling like sandpaper. But that would mean I'd be very uncomfortable sitting right now. And Diego would feel like sandpaper. No, that would be sad. But I do not want to be hanging upside down from a tree branch in the snow and ice. That's true. How about you? That's true. I don't like either these. I would rather not. That's not how any of this, what's that line? That's not how. That's not how this works. That's not how any of this works. Okay. I. Yeah, man, I think I see even sleeping upside down, like, all the blood's gonna rush to your head. That was the first thing. Crazy headache. Yeah. I'm gonna have to go with soft and fluffy textures. Feel like sandpaper. Yeah. That's gross. I don't like that is a bad choice. Those suck. I hope I read better. I hope you have better choices. All right, I got it. Would you rather they do, say, 2500 impossible questions? So. There are not 2500 questions in here. There may be 30. Maybe there's the combination. Like, if you mix them back. Oh, there you go. Yeah, that's. Now I'm gonna have to go do that math, that exponential thing. So 50 to the 50th. Just do them. Okay. Do the game. I don't have my glasses. All right. Would you rather. Yeah. Fight off 20 duck sized unicorns every time you go to the restroom? I need to say that twice. Fight off duck sized unicorns every time you go to the restroom. Okay. Or. Wow. Or what? Or have to wear summer clothes all through each winter. Oh, I would much rather wear summer clothes. Oh, me too. That was an easy one. That was easy. Easy, easy. Now. But that would be outside as well, though, huh? That would be outside as well. Okay. I mean, duck sized, unicorn sized unicorns. Would you rather buy 100 duck sized horses or one horse sized duck? Ha. That's good. 100 duck sized horses or one horse sized duck? Ducks are bigger than you think. 100 ducks. Ducks are nasty. And ducks are nasty. Yeah, but it's a horse. Horses aren't nasty. A hundred ducks. I just charm them. I horse whisper them, and they just go Zen. Yeah, they just go Zen. Because I horse whisper them. Yeah. Dream eye. Because that's me, the animal whisperer. Get ready. Look how calm these dogs are. They really are very calm. Something highly unusual. Totally passed out. I'm a little worried. Awesome. I noticed that boo really loves that. Yeah. When we're down. Little bit does love. Really, really loves that. Loves that little nest. Well, I'll take a picture of that. Pop it up there. Okay. Okay, your turn. I hope yours is easy as mine was. Mine was pretty easy. Yeah. Would you rather. Uh oh. Have your speech replaced with the singular word sausages? Have to spend every other month walking around naked in public. Well, the walking around naked in public does not bother me. It would bother everybody who had to see me every other month. Which means in the wintertime, you'd have to be walking around in public naked. Yeah, but I could be indoors in public. Like, it doesn't say outdoors. So here's the problem. Here's. I'm very clearly going to do that one, and here's why. My walking around naked in public. I'm not the one who's offended. It's everybody who has to look at it. So I'm going with that one. I'll be comfortable. I can't even imagine what it means to have your speech replaced the singular word sausages. So you can only say sausages. Yeah, you'd have to learn sign language or something. Even though sign language would have to be sausages, too. Oh, sausages. Because that's speech. Yeah, just sausages. Sausages. You can be pretty expressive with it. Sausages. But no, I'm not even gonna try. I can't even. I think we should try it for an hour. For an hour. Not on the show, but let's try it for an hour. That'll be our in home date night this week. Do it as a date. Night sausages. We need videos. Okay. And we will have to order sausages. Did you say an hour? 15 minutes? Yeah, maybe 15 minutes. And then we can just play it over and over again on a reel and nobody will know the difference because. It'Ll just sell like sausages. Oh, my God. Okay, so you're going with sausages. You didn't answer the question. No, no. I find it very uncomfortable to imagine myself walking around naked in public. I wish I had your. I just wish I had your sense. Of, like, my absolute. Hey, it's not bothering me. It's. You're the ones. Do we have to bleep those words? You don't like it, you don't look. I wish I had that. I just don't have that gene. So you didn't have anything beautiful to look at, but I don't care. Go look at something beautiful then. Oh, yeah, but. But people get mean. Like, people could be nasty. That's their problem. No, it could be your problem if they got mean at you. I don't know. It doesn't faze me. I think I might just learn how to. That is actually pretty interesting. I might learn how to be. How to be expressive with sausages. That's a pretty interesting topic to explore in another day, though, is the difference, our difference in, like, body, how much we care about what people think about what we look like. Yeah. Yeah. That's really good point. Which is why you always look better than I. No, I don't. And it is. But it is why I like that. Like, there are things that really stress. Like, the whole thing is really in, on some level, very stressful. I've actually meant to mention that. It's a big thing that you're doing this. Yes. With video. Yes. And when I'm not. When I'm not, you're not thrilled with. How you feel or look or whatever it is. So that I really. I meant to mention that because. Thank you. That is huge step. Which is awesome. So anyway. Okay, go ahead. Would you rather have to sleep each night in a haunted house? Mine are easier. Okay. Or whoops, upside down. I don't even want to read it. It's only going to think about all day. Have a spider appear on your head every time you get dressed. Sleep in a haunted house or have a spider appear on top of your head every time you get dressed. Is it really there or is it. Just like it's there, like, appearing to be there? How big is the spider and how haunted house. The spider is this big and the haunted house is truly haunted with real ghosts. And we don't know if they're friendly or not friendly. You can't know that going in to. So we don't know if they're, like, throwing stuff around. Right. We don't know anything. They're gonna levitate you off. You just have to choose blind. Yeah. I'm taking the spider. Me too. You know why? Because I can just go and you'll. You'll be deadened to it after the first couple days. Yeah. Like, after that, it won't be gross. After three or four, you'll probably be playing with it. If it was. If it was a monster spider, it would be harder. But if given the size that you gave me, I'm like, yeah, I think it will cause me to dress really fast. And I could. But you could take it off the minute you saw it, flip it off my head. And what I'd be thinking is, after, like, five days, it'd be a pet at that point, maybe like, you're not gonna be as freaked out. It's like, what do they call that? If it's not one of those, like, really bad kind of spiders? Well, we're gonna assume recluse spider. Are they the ones that bite and kill you? They are. They have very dangerous. Okay. So it wouldn't be every day. Then you'd have one bite and die, so that doesn't count. Okay. And if you're dead, you're not gonna be scared of the spider. Only get dressed, like, once a week. Oh, yeah. I could do that. Not Deb could not do that. Not Deb cannot do that. That's something. The worst I can do is, like, a pajama day. Like a day in jamies. And then you're still changing at night. I'm still changing the new pajamas. Yeah. Can't do that. All right, so you're. I'm spider too, though. I'm spider because I think they ultimately turn into a pet. Like, you're freaked out now because. Yeah, it's Steve. You would just name it Steve on your head. Okay. That's a good name for a spider. Yeah, I like Steve. You're up. Okay. Would you rather. Would I rather. Yours are hard. I don't like yours. I gave them to you. Though. You did be covered head to toe in luminous green fur or have a body made entirely of cutlery. Those two go together nicely. Entirely of cutlery. I'm going to have to go with the fur. I can't imagine if you had cutlery, you wouldn't be able to pick things up. Yeah. You'd be like. You'd be like the philly fanatic in luminous green fur. Yes, that's right. We would represent. I'm going with. I'm going off. I'm going with the luminous green. We owe philly that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. All right. For sure. I'm in. Are we doing more of these? Yeah, we'll keep going. We'll keep going. All right. You're tough. All right, all right. Would you rather have feet that smell like rotten fish or have to walk backwards everywhere? I walk backwards everywhere. I. Yeah, me, too. Me too. I will walk. That smell, like, everywhere. No, no, no. Yeah, that would suck. Do you need more cards? I do. I need. I need. I need some. I need some more. All right, here we go. No, they. I think they make things for that. Oh, yeah. Well, that's a given after the gym. Okay. That is true. Okay, I'm ready. Would you rather. Uh. Oh. Have to narrate everything you see aloud forever or live in a shed in the middle of a desert? That's actually a funny question, because there was one car ride home from the Philadelphia airport with Lindsey. Yes. I was there. And she literally, she narrated everything. Narrated every single billboard along I 95 north of the airport. Yeah, it was relentless. I don't know how old she was. I have no idea. She was young. I don't. Hysterical. I remember that one, too. I just. I couldn't stop laughing, but. And I kept thinking, she's gonna tire of this. She did not tire. She played the game to the end. And that wasn't really narrating everything. Read that one again. Narrate it. For the rest of my life, I. Have to narrate everything you see allowed forever. Forever. Forever. That is definitely not me, because I. Live in a shed in the middle of a desert. Do I have water access? It's a shed. And do I have wi fi? It's a shed. Air conditioning in a shed. It's a shed. I gotta narrate, and I hate that. Yeah, you gotta know I'll get laryngitis. What happens then? What about you? I would be narrating, too. You like talking, though. I don't like talking. I know that seems backwards on this show, because I do talk a lot on the show, but you are a talker, like in normal day to day life, and I'm not. I like to talk to people. Right? Yeah. Yeah. I enjoy people. Human person reaching out for connection with other human persons. I do that, yes. But, like, when I tell a story I like. I'm like, I went to the grocery store. I got stuff. Yeah, you and Lindsey tell a story, and it's like every color, every sound, every baby. You saw funny things that happened in the parking lot. It's awesome because I love listening to it. Don't get me wrong. I love being on the listening side of all that. I'm like, that is just way too much work to retell all that stuff for me to tell it. Sharing. Sharing your experience. I love hearing it. Yeah. Yeah. Your experience of life is really exciting. It is. I just don't talk through it all the time. But you know what? It does. I do think that by not being a little, at least even a little bit more narrative sometimes, like, your experience is very separated from everyone else because we have. We don't have a clear sense of what you're. What I'm noticing, not even what. What did you see? How did you feel about what you saw? So when you do this as an. Exercise, I should have to narrate my day once. You could try it for 15 minutes after we say sausages, after we do sausages. But that's it. I should have to married my day. Once for 15 minutes. Okay, well, I'll work on that, though. I will work on telling more about all the things I'm thinking. It's a little scary. I think it may be, like, a brain thing, because I think so many things when I see something, which you guys do, too. But you managed to collect all the ones that people will be interested in hearing and share them. Right. I'm like, nobody's gonna be interested. We can discuss what I thought when I saw salient facts. Pam, this is a gift. This is something we learn. This is something you learn how to do, and you learn it by doing it. Working the muscle, as they say. Yeah. All right. I'll live in the stretch and give that a try. All right, we've done that one already. We've done that one already. You're in your discard pile. Yeah, I'm reading my discards. All right, let's draw new. Would you rather. Okay. Only be able to travel by means of a terrifying rollercoaster or be chased by a supervillain for the rest of your life? I know what I'm doing. Yeah. Put me on the roller coaster. That's fun. That's actually not even a downside. Like, a terrifying roller coaster. That'd be so much fun. Yeah. Imagine it for, like, a seven hour. Flight on a terrifying roller coaster. I probably wouldn't go very far. Might limit my travel. Might limit my travel. That's a thought. But still followed by a supervillain. Well, is the supervillain threatening me or just following me? He's just following me. Go ahead, follow. Just, like, walking naked right after. Like, he's coming after you. So I'm gonna go with the roller coaster. Easy, easy. And that would be fun for local travel. You're right. Yeah. The only thing, yeah. Cross country travel would be hard. Cross the ocean. You know, the other thing is, if you decide to go with the supervillain, you then have to, like, find yourself, you know, some superhero. Yeah, you'd have to find, like, a superhero. Ryan Reynolds, Deadpool. You have to get. Yeah, you'd have to get Ryan Reynolds to come. There you go. We're only in season two of wrecks them. And he hasn't gotten them to win yet, though, so I'm not sure if he's such a superhero. Have to wait and watch. See if they win this one. He's not in the suit. Oh. Gotcha. It's gotta be the suit. The suit helps. All right, well, I'll buy that. Reminds me of the question that you can live forever. The only condition is there's a snail that follows you for the rest of your life. That if you see it, you'll die instantly. Just if you see it. Yeah. So if the snail ever catches up to you, you'll die, but you could live forever. You just have to think about, can you sleep? You can do whatever you want. No, I wouldn't. I would not want it. First of all, living forever is not all that appealing. If we remember, Francis is like, I want to die at 60 because life goes to hell in a handbasket. 80. You don't remember that? No. Because I'm sitting here going like we're nothing. Far off a 60. When he's done, not far off a 60. I'm over it already. I'm not. I'm not with that. I think we'll wrap today. Smarty pants. Hey, I had to. I got one more. Does she get one more? All right, go ahead. Go ahead. You can't pick through them. Of course I can. You just have to read the one that pops up. This is random. She was sick. She's healthy now. Would you rather have toes for fingers, toes or toast? Toes. Toes. Toast would be pretty good. French toast. Yeah, toast. Good toes. Toes for fingers. Or have an irremovable wasp nest living inside your pillow? Those both suck. It's got to be toes for fingers. But, jeez, I just wouldn't use the pillow, man. Like, don't use the pillow that. Well, there's that. Okay. But it migrates to any pillow you do use. What? Don't use a pillow. Yeah, these are cushions. It's not a pillow. So you're having the wasp nest. I'm trying to figure out how to write with my toes. Toes for fingers type with my toes. That's hard. Think about. Think about. There are people who do, like, there are people who paint with their feet. There are people who do all sorts of really intricate things with their feet. Hold your hand up and imagine which is toes. So if you think about it, it can be done. Imagine your toes. Imagine your toes. Right. But think about this. Truly, I mean, brilliant art in some space. Oh, yes. So my thoughts, you could learn. You could. Whereas with a wasp nest, you just never have a pillow the rest of your life. That's right. I don't know. Those are. Those are hard. I don't like this game. This is a hard game. If I had. If I had toes for fingers, it would be like things. There would be some things that would be really, really, really hard. Yeah. Playing the piano would be really. That would be hard. But again, I bet it can be done. Play the guitar really hard. Well, you don't play the guitar now. Well, you could, but you don't. I don't dream about it sometimes. I dream about it sometimes. That's pretty good. Yeah. All right, so that was fun. This has been an adventurous week. We hope you all have a much less adventurous week. But we're really glad you joined us on. She said. She said, please, if you're enjoying this hit, like subscribe, let us know what kind of topics you'd like us to chat about. Pretty much it's just about the things of life. Yeah. Little slice of our life. There you go. Anything else you want to ask, say, end with no. No. And that's a wrap. It's a wrap.